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The first thing both parents should realize is that there are no real winners when children are involved. How to win child custody? The best way is to try and come to an agreement between the 2 parents. This can be done through a mediator, lawyers or between the parents. Doing this between the parents will save both of you a lot of money.
It is not how to win child custody but how to put the children in the best situation to cope with this ordeal. When the parents can come up with their own custody agreement, children tend to adjust better. You will also spend a lot less time in the court room.
People have to realize that there are those cases that just can not be solved. This could be due to either abuse or the personalities of the parents are too strong.
In this case seek the services of a lawyer that specializes in family law. When you are trying to find out how to win child custody be sure to be open and honest with your attorney. Don't lie about anything you have done or said. It will come out. It will hurt you in a custody case. Tell your attorney everything you can about the child's other parent. Keep a log of everything. Write down any problems your child is having with the other parent. Keep track of the money you spend and on what.
You want to be able to prove to the court that you are the best parent for your child. Allow the other parent to see the child. If you don't, you can be seen as the unfit parent. Never argue in front of your child. Never say bad things about the other parent. This will also make you seem as the one that is the unfit parent.
How to win child custody? You have to be level headed, methodical and detailed in everything you do, say and spend. Just because you have more money doesn't make you are the better parent. Be the best parent you can be. The custody of your child can be yours.
I urge you to keep in mind what is best for the child. You as the parents are responsible for these precious lives you brought into this world. Don't let them down. Life has a way of rewarding those that do right by the ones they love. Always keep the best interest of your children at heart.
